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Apr 02 2010

Could This Be True!?

There are some things in life that every one must experience for themselves. Some things that you just have to experience; right?

Must have experiences that quickly come to mind are:

Chocolate; everyone should experience chocolate in their life.

Ice cream; another must!

Walking barefoot in the sand.

Skydiving! (I know some of you may disagree, but you obviously haven't tried it then!)

Motherhood. (Ok, I realize that cuts a lot of you out, too, but as a mother, I do have to include it!)

A hug.

A kiss.

A smile.

Hysterical laughter.

Falling in the snow.

Catching a snowflake on your tongue.

A rainbow.

Roasting a marshmallow by a campfire.

A smore.

Singing in the rain.

A full moon.

A falling star.

Freely dancing without a care in the world.

Spinning…and falling.

I know I'll think of a hundred more things after I post this, but I'm sure you get my point.

So imagine my surprise when we were watching a commercial and the "Sound of Music" came on and I started singing….

and my niece had no idea what it was! I explained to her that this was a must for our family. The Drama Queen nodded her head in agreement and handed me the movie immediately!

As I type this, the Princess is contentedly watching and humming along. 

And the world will be set right again for yet another day!

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Drama Queen, Family, Princess, The Vivas Family!

Mar 09 2010

Quirkiness

This morning as B-boo was in search of whipped topping, I had to laugh. You see, each morning, she has a cup of hot chocolate with whipped topping and usually a bagel with cream cheese. She's willing to eat other things for breakfast, but do NOT mess with her whipped topping. Which brings us back to last night really. Hubby had to go to the store and so I asked him to get more whipped topping because I didn't want B-boo to run out. I know she'll flip if she gets up and finds none. She just can't start her day out without it. Or the chocolate.

For the most part, her chocolate is left alone. No one else seems to have the fancy for it that she does. We're talking Ghiradelli hot chocolate. Good stuff. And whipped topping.

So hubby purchases two whipped toppings, only to find out there was already one in the freezer, bring us up to three in the freezer because there was a hidden one, no TWO in the fridge. Except, one was empty and the other almost. Which of course, threw her into a panic, because that meant she might not have whipped topping for her chocolate! But, Dad to rescue, he showed her how he'd stocked up just for her.

And speaking of chocolate, the Smart One doesn't like the good stuff; he only likes the Nestle or Swiss stuff, mixed with milk instead of water. I think he's loopy, but he leaves B-boo's chocolate alone, so it works. What he likes is the gluten free waffles. Don't let him run out, because his morning preference is a waffle sandwich. This means, waffle, egg, sausage patty, cheese, waffle. He will go without the sausage, but he prefers to have the sandwich. He also prefers certain socks for his feet. They have to fit, just right. This is really important to him.

And the Talented One; you have to make sure his bagel is completely covered with cream cheese. If he sees bagel, he'll put more cream cheese on it. He's quirky in other ways, too. For instance, he doesn't like to have his hands dirty; and please don't ask him to touch raw meat. And don't touch his hair. And he likes his own bed. Always has. As an infant, he'd stay up until placed in his crib; then he'd fall asleep. To this day, he rarely does overnights because he likes his bed.

I can't blame him for that one, though. I like my own bed, too. And my pillows have to be placed a certain way or I can't sleep. And I don't like to crawl into a bed with wrinkled sheets. If my bed is unmade for any reason, I have to make it before I can crawl into it. I know, they probably get their quirkiness from me!

The only one that seems to have no real quirkiness is the Drama Queen! She's our flipperty jibbet who just goes along for the ride! She'll sleep anywhere, eat just about anything (as long as she's not allergic to it!), and doesn't always care about what she's wearing.

The only one that is even more so than her is Chicken Noodle Butt. He'll eat anything. Sometimes hubby likes to have fun with him to see how far he'll go. As in chocolate on rice mixed with ketchup and who knows what else. The joke is if no one wants it, give it to Chicken Noodle Butt. His only "quirkiness" is his calendar. He lives by that calendar! Don't mess with it; don't argue with it. 

And then…there's hubby. I'm not sure I can even go there. I'd have to say his "real" quirkiness is his feeling for food. As in, if he doesn't feel like eating it, he won't. If he's not in the mood for it, he'd rather just not eat. What a funny man. I laugh when he stands in front of a full fridge, looking for something, but finding nothing that he is in the "mood" for. You gotta love him.

Our poor kids don't stand a chance at normalness.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Chicken Noodle Butt, Dad, Drama Queen, Family, Humor, Smart One, Talented One, The Vivas Family!

Mar 06 2010

Mothers/Daughters

This weekend, B-boo is out of town. I was supposed to be on this trip with our youth, but because of my recent illness, I'm stuck at home in bed instead.

But I miss her. I've been thinking a lot lately about how close we are. I sometimes wonder if it's a one-sided view, but I don't think so. I'm thinking the phone calls have proved that. B-boo and I have spent a lot of one on one time together. She is fiercely protective of me; my illness has definitely had an impact on her. She's been a wonderful nurse to me and I am so glad she went on this trip without me.

But I miss her. As a competitive gymnasts for four years, she traveled a lot. And so I traveled with her. We had plenty of time to build a relationship. When she quit, I was so sad that we would not take these trips anymore. And then she got sick. And instead of waiting in an airport or bonding in a hotel, we spent many hours in the waiting room of doctor after doctor. Yahtzee on my cell phone in the waiting rooms became routine. Movies and conversations in my bedroom while she recovered from surgeries brought us even closer.

And now, party planning and house cleaning and Wednesday nights with chocolate; all of these keep our relationship going. So yes, I miss her.

And I was telling hubby yesterday as I received a text from her letting us know she was ok; that I can only hope to have the same relationship with the Drama Queen as I have with B-boo. I wonder; because the Drama Queen has such a hold on her relationship with her Daddy. And that is ok, I understand her being Daddy's Girl.

She is such a ball of fire and ready to take off at any given minute. She is so different from B-boo. Tonight, we talked about her continuing to home school while I gave her a french manicure. She wanted me to take her to have one; I couldn't do that, but I could give her one myself. She was thrilled! And we talked about the things we could do and places we can go and the fun we can have.

Yes, she is different. She has different ideas and needs and wants. But I found out tonight, that I am definitely in the running. When it comes to the fun girl stuff and talking and laughing, she wants that with me.

So, while I miss B-boo terribly this weekend; I am using the time to fill some moments with the Drama Queen.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: B-Boo, Drama Queen, Family, The Vivas Family!

Feb 21 2010

She Lives

It's been nine days since I first went in for a simple surgery. It's taken nine days just to have enough energy to sit up with a bit of a clear head and type this. B-Boo may have to finish it, as I seem to think I have energy and then quickly realize it's been zapped out of me.

Day 1; surgery went well.

Day 2; I'm told I'm going home. Then, told I have an infection, I'm staying. (Seems to make since because I tell the nurse the surgery site is starting to burn.) Then I"m told the levels are going down, HMO wants me home. So home we go.

Day 3; I'm exhausted. A little confused because I usually snap back quickly and I can't seem to stop shaking or lift my head off the pillow. It becomes hard to open my eyes. I start to not care, but I have two children laying in the room with me and I try hard to focus. I finally muster enough energy to have one of them take my temp. Fever. We call the doctor; he says go to the ER.  By the time I can tell hubby what we need to do I can barely walk. I start to wonder how we'll ever make it to the ER. I'm so nauseous I just want to be left alone. I vaguely remember them dragging me to the van and crying as we head out. By the time we got to the ER, both hubby and I are covered in vomit, so they take us back right away. By this time, I really don't even care anymore. They figure out I have an abscess and admit me.

Day 4: Early in the morning, they transfer me to a room. The nurse tells me that they've called in an Infectious Disease doctor, an internist and my surgeon. They are testing for staph. They know I have sepsis and an abscess. I call hubby.

Days 4, 5 & 6 are spent in extreme pain and whirlwinds of semi-consciousness as meds and antibiotics are poured into my system. HMO wants to sent me home on Day 5, but the doctors refuse. Finally, after more tests on Day 6, I am sent home with a pic-line. For the next 14 days, I will have antibiotics run through. A nurse comes daily to teach hubby and B-boo how to administer the antibiotics. I'll have weekly blood level checks.

I'm at the point where my brain feels like it's starting to work, but nothing else will listen to me. Friday wasn't so bad, but Saturday was rough. The nurse says that this is how it works until the antibiotics really kick in. She reminds us that we're lucky I paid attention to my body on Monday and went in; that this could have killed me. I'm reminded to take it easy, rest, and give it a lot of time.

As if i could do anything else.

We have been so blessed. Friends haven't hesitated to jump in and help wherever needed. I have felt so much love and compassion over the past several days as my family has been taken care of so that they can take care of me.

My brain is starting to fuzzle again, and B-boo will update as much as she can. Thank you for your prayers!

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Family, Friendship, Health, The Vivas Family!

Feb 18 2010

update from B-Boo

Once again, another crazy week. The is B-Boo updating everybody since well… My mother cant. And shouldn't wont
be on the computer to update you for a little while longer. But when
she gets on you'll have more details. Basically this is how it all went
down.

It was just to supposed to be a surgery, take a few weeks to heal, don't listen to doctors orders. All simple and easy stuff right? HA! nope not in our family.

This
was Saturday the 13th. Today's Thursday, 5 days later. She just got
home from the hospital, Thursday night at 6 PM. Saturday morning she
had surgery. Punky picked up The Drama Queen and The Smart one and took
them to the dentist. The Drama Queen had two root canals, and the Smart
one had 6 teeth pulled. I think. Saturday evening Chicken Noodle Butt
pulled
out two of his teeth. Sunday evening she came home. Monday evening she
went BACK to the hospital. And now were on Thursday and she just got
home
.

I'm
not 100% sure on what my father (hubby) wanted me to update you all on.
But soon she'll be on and updating you on everything(: If there is a
new thing in the next couple of days…. Well there shouldn't be. 
Well this was interesting. Thank you and sorry for my bad grammar, spelling, English stuff.

love always

~B-boo

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Family, The Vivas Family!

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