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Aug 27 2013

We can’t make this stuff up…

Working at a school can be fun…and interesting…and draining…and

FUNNY

And anyone that works at a school cannot possibly explain what a first day of the school year is like…because no one would believe us.

Honest…and you know what I’m talking about if you’re one of us….

We’re the ones that sign up year after year for this….because we love it.

And we’re dedicated.

Even when….

A parent tries to drop their child off in the middle of heavy traffic and wants to know if you are serious when you tell the child to get back in because it is too dangerous and for mom to proceed to the designated safe spot. (BTW – we’re serious about keeping your kids safe.)

Or, a parent is too impatient to wait for you to cross them, so they plunge ahead while you put your life at risk with flag and body to stop traffic from hitting them…because we’re just nice like that.

Then there’s Kindergartner who has never been away from mom  who tries to make a run for it. And then cries because his little heart is broken…and yet, with patience and determination…and a lot of kindness, he learns to relax and enjoy his first, first day of school.

And the many elementary students who forgot what the name of their teacher is…or how to find the bathroom…or….or

Then there’s the older secondary student who is supposed to be picked up by the bus…only a near …relative …decides to take him home…but both the relative and the student forget to let the school or mom know that the bus is no longer needed because they have taken the student home. Forget that you’ve ran around the campus in three digit weather looking for the child who really isn’t missing after all; not to mention needlessly worried a parent…

Most of all, there’s the exhaustion of hundreds of parents asking you hundreds of questions….

And what feels like hundreds of students against one of you….

And you go home at the end of the day completely exhausted….but content…because you made it through the first day of the school year.

And you’ll forever remember that one thing that stood out.

Like the 1st grader who is standing off by himself while everyone else is lining up..so you go and ask him what’s up? Why are you over here by yourself?

And you get a bewildered…”I just don’t know how it happened?”

And you hesitate to ask…because you never know what the answer is…but you ask anyway, “How what happened?”

To which he replies, “I don’t know how it happened…it just popped out?”

And you tentatively ask, “How what popped out?” (all the while praying he isn’t talking about a bone…)

And then he holds out his hand and replies, “My tooth.”

And with a great big sigh of relief, you take yet another child to the health office so he can put his tooth in a tiny little treasure box to take home to his mother…

Whose probably upset that she missed that moment when….her child’s tooth just….popped….out.

Written by Hope · Categorized: Humor, Just Being Real

Jun 09 2013

When God isn’t Listening

Some days are just hard. Some months even harder. And then there are those periods of time when we are so desperate that all we can do is cry out to God in despair…

And HE IS NOT LISTENING!

Our family has had some pretty tough times through the years. I can quote scripture and share the numerous ways He has amazed me with the way He has worked things out for us. Ways that I could never dream of.

And I have been ok with that. But lately, it just doesn’t stop. In just three months, we have managed to meet our huge family deductible because four of us have had some serious medical issues. We have gone from being debt free for the past five years to racking up thousands in just a few short months.

And I really don’t care about the money, although it does stress me out. A lot.

What I care about is my family. And wanting them to be healthy. And happy. And pain free.

After a while one gets into the mindset of, “Ok, God what else can you throw at me?”

Probably not the smartest way of thinking , but hey, just being real here.

I was telling a close friend yesterday that I was starting to think that God isn’t listening. I mean, I know He is because His Word say so, but my heart isn’t so sure. I explained to her that the other night I was up literally praying over my son. He was so sick and in so much pain and my heart was breaking. So I just cried out to God. I pleaded with Him to give me an answer.

“Is this my fault. Am I doing something wrong? Is he being punished because of me?”

And then, I just begged Him to please have mercy on my son and heal him and just give him some peace to get thru the night. And the second I prayed those words…

He started hurling over and over again..

And as I helped my son, all I could muster to close my prayer was, “Thanks for listening, God.”

And so my friend was sweet and reassuring and wonderful as usual. I do know God is listening. Honest.

And as I drove home, the van overheated so much it felt like we had opened up an oven..no air…113 degrees…and pouring heat so bad that we felt like we were suffocating. I thought the DQ was going to pass out. And then the service engine started flashing and we started losing power…but we made it home safe.

I AM SO TIRED.

And I wonder, are you listening God? Can you hear me?

I wasn’t going to write this blog because its not about a pity party. But then, I was listening to a friend who is having a really tough time…and she wonders why isn’t God listening to her?

So here is my answer…

God has to be listening because His Word never fails us.

We are not alone, it just feels like it. But He will get us thru this.

Maybe He is using this time in our lives to get us to move. Stop sleeping and get up and see what it is He is trying to tell us. Maybe we can’t hear Him because we are not listening. Maybe we needed a jolt.

Maybe He is using my son as a tool for a testimony to others; I don’t have to like it or understand it, but I do have to trust Him.

So God, are you listening? I am done talking now…I am ready to listen; ready to see what it is You are trying to do here.

…but can you hurry up please?

This is me, just being real.

Written by Hope · Categorized: Faith, Just Being Real · Tagged: Prayer

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