Last night as I was putting away clothes in my closet and looking around thinking that I really need to reorganize my own closet (not just the kids), I happened to glance down at something on the floor. It was shoelaces that I bought for my husband's shoes at least a month ago. I picked them up and set them on the ironing board and started putting things away. Then I went to go get the kids ready for bed and try and make it through the rest of the night as all I wanted was a bed because of my allergies and Benadryl.
In the wee of the night (or early morning), a thought came to me. Instead of grumbling to myself about how I bought the shoelaces and he didn't even put them on his shoes, I could be kind and put them on for him. I know how much I appreciate the little things he does for me, so why can't I do the same for him? I could try going the extra mile to be kind. And you know what's worse? When I finally went to put the shoelaces on, I found out that these were some stray laces…he'd already put them on! Ouch!
Fourteen months ago, today, our dear friends lost their son in a terrible accident. Josh was such a sweet heart and set an amazing example of being kind. His family has started a foundation in his name, recognizing children who have a heart for kindness. You can read more about it on their web page.
I would encourage all of my readers today, to be conscience of their actions today and look for ways to be kind. Go the extra mile to be kind to your spouse, children, loved one…friend. You never know, you just might find a little joy today by being kind to someone else!
thank you for this reminder! The tragedy of your friend’s son is a poignant reminder of how life is so precious… we take so much for granted and it’s so easy to take our loved ones for granted.
Great to have you link up!
It’s those little things, isn’t it, that make such a difference? They never go unnoticed, either. Thank you for the reminder of being kind. It brings so much joy to others, as well as yourself.
I have found that one of the easiest ways to bring joy to my husband is to make his coffee in the morning. It’s a simple thing but it really seems to mean a lot to him. The kindnesses that mean the most are so often the simplest, easy things. Thanks for the reminder.
Beautifully poignant post. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I love the idea of little acts of kindness producing such joy. It really helps you focus on the eternal reward.