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Mar 02 2010

I just love it when God…

Don't you just love it when God shows He cares? I do!

Yesterday I had a doctor's appointment. We took a short jaunt to Whole Foods to grab some stuff for our allergy kids and then went home. I was exhausted, shaking, lightheaded and had a headache by the time we got home. I've been suffering from insomnia since I contracted the Sepsis and last night was bad. I tossed and turned and absolutely could not sleep. By this morning, I was a mess. I spent some time in prayer just kind of pouring out my heart.

Hubby was up early getting kids to school and such. Then, the phone repair guy showed up an hour early, throwing hubby off. The Princess had some problems and it was pure chaos. On top of that, I had another doctor appointment today, so needed to get ready. Hubby was trying to get some protein in me to help me with the shakes while dealing with everything else. Finally, we were able to sit down so he could give me my antibiotics. NOT!

We had three days worth left; and ALL THREE antibiotics were broken in one way or another. We had to call the pharmacist and nursing care to find out what to do; only to find out we had to go across town to pick up the meds to get them into me on time. This meant we had to leave even earlier. As hubby was about to blow and I was about to burst into tears, the doorbell rings.

Beautiful, long stem roses had arrived, fresh cut from the farm.

God is good.

We finally made it to the doctor's appointment (with clean hair, I might add!), and saw the doc. He said I can have my picc line taken out! It comes out first thing tomorrow, yippee! I still have weeks for full recovery, but what an answer to prayer.

On top of that, we've been praying for answers in regards to some very specific happenings in our lives. It's not been easy. Today, God sent us someone to help us in this area. I can't really share details, but I can say that this is one of those things that you just KNOW is an answer to prayer. Wow!

I just love it when God does this. 🙂

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Family, Friendship

Feb 25 2010

Joy of Living!

I love reading Just for the Joy of It at Good, True and Beautiful on Thursdays. I missed it last week because I was in the hospital. But I can come up with a ton of "Just for the Joy of It's" today. I'll share a few.

Starting with the Conga Line….Hubby had helped me shower today (that's joy in itself!), and was helping me down the stairs as it puckered me out. He walked in front of me and I held onto his shoulders. The Smart One yells out, "Conga Line!"

A smile, Just for the Joy of It!

Cuddling with the Drama Queen and watching "Tammy and the Bachelor."

Begging Chicken Noodle Butt to stop talking, but secretly smiling inside.

Sitting with my eldest next to me; not really talking much but surely enjoying his company.

Watching the Talented One and B-boo secretly giggle together and then burst out laughing; having no idea why, but it gives me joy to know they are.

Stealing a kiss with hubby.

Explaining to the Drama Queen the difference between a "private kiss" and a smooch.

Visits from friends.

The love of friends; the meals that have been brought, the phone calls, the help.

Baby steps every day; it's those little accomplishments that bring me joy!

Laughing, talking, singing, loving; living.

God is good.

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Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Family, Friendship

Feb 21 2010

She Lives

It's been nine days since I first went in for a simple surgery. It's taken nine days just to have enough energy to sit up with a bit of a clear head and type this. B-Boo may have to finish it, as I seem to think I have energy and then quickly realize it's been zapped out of me.

Day 1; surgery went well.

Day 2; I'm told I'm going home. Then, told I have an infection, I'm staying. (Seems to make since because I tell the nurse the surgery site is starting to burn.) Then I"m told the levels are going down, HMO wants me home. So home we go.

Day 3; I'm exhausted. A little confused because I usually snap back quickly and I can't seem to stop shaking or lift my head off the pillow. It becomes hard to open my eyes. I start to not care, but I have two children laying in the room with me and I try hard to focus. I finally muster enough energy to have one of them take my temp. Fever. We call the doctor; he says go to the ER.  By the time I can tell hubby what we need to do I can barely walk. I start to wonder how we'll ever make it to the ER. I'm so nauseous I just want to be left alone. I vaguely remember them dragging me to the van and crying as we head out. By the time we got to the ER, both hubby and I are covered in vomit, so they take us back right away. By this time, I really don't even care anymore. They figure out I have an abscess and admit me.

Day 4: Early in the morning, they transfer me to a room. The nurse tells me that they've called in an Infectious Disease doctor, an internist and my surgeon. They are testing for staph. They know I have sepsis and an abscess. I call hubby.

Days 4, 5 & 6 are spent in extreme pain and whirlwinds of semi-consciousness as meds and antibiotics are poured into my system. HMO wants to sent me home on Day 5, but the doctors refuse. Finally, after more tests on Day 6, I am sent home with a pic-line. For the next 14 days, I will have antibiotics run through. A nurse comes daily to teach hubby and B-boo how to administer the antibiotics. I'll have weekly blood level checks.

I'm at the point where my brain feels like it's starting to work, but nothing else will listen to me. Friday wasn't so bad, but Saturday was rough. The nurse says that this is how it works until the antibiotics really kick in. She reminds us that we're lucky I paid attention to my body on Monday and went in; that this could have killed me. I'm reminded to take it easy, rest, and give it a lot of time.

As if i could do anything else.

We have been so blessed. Friends haven't hesitated to jump in and help wherever needed. I have felt so much love and compassion over the past several days as my family has been taken care of so that they can take care of me.

My brain is starting to fuzzle again, and B-boo will update as much as she can. Thank you for your prayers!

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Family, Friendship, Health, The Vivas Family!

Feb 10 2010

Managed Health Care

We've always had private health insurance. This is a good thing. I worked in the billing department for five years for a private practice 15 years ago. It's a good thing. I know how insurances and doctors work in order to provide services and treat a patient.

I also know that managed health care is not the way to go! The doctor's are barely paid and the patients are barely taken care of! The one thing we've always done is make sure that we choose the PPO!

Except, that my husband has been out of work since October. You cannot pay a COBRA payment if you don't have an income. (Most people cannot pay a COBRA payment even if they DO have an income!) So, that means we go without insurance. Except…and I don't say this to share our personal finances, but to inform the public of what really happens..anyway….

We make so little money that we actually qualify for medicaid. Not only for our children, but for us, too. That said, it seemed silly not to seek medical help in an area of mine that needs attention. And so starts the merry-go-round.

You see, not many doctors take full medicaid, but there are some pretty good doctors out there who do. I was afraid of medicaid, but at least I was able to continue seeing my physicians for the most part. I learned that you can't break a tooth, because medicaid won't cover it, but the rest was fairly easy. And so, I went in for a check up.

I'll be honest and state that I had no idea what that would end up as. I went from a mammogram, to another mammogram, to a biopsy that all turned out ok in the end. Except that I wasn't seeking medical treatment for that, it was just supposed to be routine.

And what I was seeking treatment for turned out to be a referral to another specialist, more tests and surgery to correct the problems. No problem.; I was told medicaid considered it important and approved it within days and I would have surgery within the week. It was all set to go when I got the call that I had to have the biopsy, so my surgery was postponed for 10 days while we awaited the results. 

And in that ONE week, I was transferred from full medicaid to HPN HMO; otherwise known as Health Plan of Nevada Managed Care for medicaid.

So, my surgery is set to go after many uncomfortable tests. I get a phone call on Friday from HPN telling me that I've been transferred over to them and I need to pick a primary care physician. Of course, none of my primary care doctors are on their list, so I need to pick a total stranger. Ok.

But wait…I tell her I'm supposed to have surgery next week; what happens now? She responds that since my surgeons are not on their provider list, I have to find a new primary care doctor and make an appointment to see him. Then, I have to get a referral from him to see whatever specialist is on their list (there's one choice…no choice), and then I have to wait for him to get approval and only then can I have my surgery. But, I ask, if medicaid approved it and they are the HMO for medicaid, why do I have to start all over? You just do.

So, refusing to accept that answer, I contact medicaid. See, I'm thinking it doesn't make FINANCIAL sense for them to make me start all over again. I"m thinking that is a waste of the tax payers money; that'd be me, too, right?

The nice lady states that I have been officially transferred over to HPN HMO now and there is nothing that she can do about it. She feels my pain and states that if she could, she would do something. She goes on to state that I was transferred so quickly because I'd had medicaid previously.

Um, nope, I've never had medicaid.

Yes, you  have. And she tells me when I had it.

I explain to her that I didn't have medicaid during that time period, but that my niece had it, but I had custody of her during that time period.

She states that I'm mistaken, because the computer states that I had medicaid so now I have to be under managed health care. (Obviously, the computer is smarter than I am and has a memory and knows what happened better than I do, so there is no argument to be had.)

I call my surgeon and leave a message for them to call me and start the process of looking for a doctor. The only one I can find I don't really care for, but it seems I have no choice. (Which is why I like PPO's) In the meantime, the surgeon's office calls me back and states that they've talked to medicaid and medicaid told them that the surgery is approved, they don't need to make anymore phone calls and I can move forward. She talks to her office manager, it's all set and they send me the paperwork to do my pre-op.

Yesterday afternoon, I get a phone call from the surgeon's office. HPN has contacted them and is refusing to pay for the surgery because they did not get authorization from them first. They tell the doctor to cancel the surgery and call the patient (me) and inform me to go to a doctor on their provider list. They are also calling my other surgeon to cancel.

Ok, I realize I should give up by now, but now it's personal. AND it's the principle of the matter. AND I'm mad. AND, I'm thinking if you want to get things done, once in a while you have to fight for it!

So, I call the HMO and stay on hold for a while. After 20 minutes, I get another urgent call from another matter regarding another family member so I have to hang up. UGH. But, I choose to see it as God looking out for me, because when I call back again, I don't have to wait too long, AND I get someone who actually has some common sense! She states that we've all been misinformed and no, they won't make me start all over and all we need is for my doctor to call such and such number and tell them when my surgery is and that medicaid has approved it and they should approve it no problem. I explain to her that I am supposed to be pre-opping in the morning, so she says call your doctor right now and they'll have it taken care of by the morning.

This morning, I decided I'd better call the HMO and make sure things are moving along. After holding for another 20 minutes, I finally get someone on the phone. She informs me that the doctor has contacted them for approval. I remind them that I need to pre-op today and ask when it will be approved. She states it should be approved by my surgery date. I remind her that I need to pre-op TODAY, so it needs to be approved. She states that my doctor did not ask for STAT approval. I inform her that they did not ask us to request STAT as per my conversation with them yesterday. She then states that they only JUST got the request last night. I explain to her that had we been told correctly FIVE DAYS AGO when we asked we would have submitted sooner. She says to call my doctor and have them call back and request it to be STAT.

I call the doctor and ask them to please call the HMO and request approval STAT so that I can get my pre-op today. She states that the HMO did not tell them this yesterday. I know; I believe you.

3 1/2 hours later, I call back to check the status. This time, I'm on hold for 40 minutes! I finally get through, and the lady on the phone says that it is in STAT status, but that I should have done this earlier. I kindly inform her that if her co-workers knew their jobs, we would have. In addition, she states that they are now asking for more doctor's notes and that the doctor needs to let them know that I need to pre-op today so that it can be approved today. I ask when this was decided. Two hours ago. I ask if the doctor was informed. She states that they should have called. I laugh. Then, I remember my manners and ask her EXACTLY what the doctor needs to do. I get the fax number, the rest of the information, etc and call my doctor.

Two hours later, I call the HMO back to check the status. Remember, I am waiting on them. After a lengthy hold and a not so great conversation, it boils down to this. The authorization department is now stating that
it is NOT in STAT status and the doctor has not contacted them, nor given them any of the doctor's notes. (I know they have.) I ask how could it be in STAT status two hours ago and not now? She says it's not. She also says that I can't talk to her supervisor and I can't talk to the authorization department because she'll get fired. And I can't call back and talk to her and she isn't allowed to give her extension. I explain to her that I know that the doctor has contacted them and given them the information and what is it going to take? She says, "30 days after the doctor sends in his notes." I also explain to her that unfortunately for me, her co-workers can't seem to really know exactly what their job entails or the even the proper procedure for getting things done. I also explain to her that every time I call, I get a different story from a different person and that there seems to be a serious lack of communication at their office. She is nice, but has to hang up now. Ok fine.

So, I call the doctor's office again. And speak to the poor soul who has to deal with them; and me. And she says that she sent everything over when I called the first time. She says that after that, the STAT girl at HPN called her and asked her to fax everything over to her, too. So she did. But, she called the insurance company again, and verified that yes, they do have everything that they need and we need to call back in an hour. And if I have to, I can pre-op tomorrow.

I'm now waiting. Husband wants to know what the problem is and why the lack of communication. The thing is, this really makes me think about managed health care, etc. It's no different than two different specialist stating that my nephew needs special leg braces, but the insurance company doesn't feel it's necessary, so he can't have them.

It's no different than my needing a breast surgeon to perform a biopsy and being told that they can't find any that will accept my insurance.

It's no different than medication being denied because the state won't approve it.

It's no different than when we first applied for medicaid for our children. We had to talk to four different people that day. And EVERY time we went into a different room, we had to start all over again. Why? Because their computers are not connected and the data had to be inputted each time. Seems redundant and ridiculous when they are ALL IN THE SAME OFFICE!

Maybe this is the state's way of saving money. Most people would probably just give up by now. They say that managed health care is good because they'll make sure you get the health care you need. Doesn't seem to be happening in my case. Or my nephew's. The problem is, they want to take the cheapest, easiest way out. And the doctor's aren't standing for it. And the patient's have no choice.

If you want to have real health care, you have to make real money. In this economy, work is a hard thing to come by. But that's another blog for another day.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Health · Tagged: HMO, insurance, managed health care, medicaid

Feb 04 2010

Smile on My Face!

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Today is Just for the Joy of It at Good, True and Beautiful. I love to read her blog at least once a week so that I can join in finding the Joy of the week. I've found myself looking for something to blog about on this day so that I can share my joy. I think that's a good thing; being a half-full instead of half-empty kind of gal!

By Monday morning, it seemed I was going to have a half-empty kind of week. However….

It's amazing what one phone call can do for you! I found joy in the fact that I don't have cancer! Trust me, there's a lot of joy in that!

I've found joy in encouragement from the unexpected.

I've found joy each morning this week as the Smart One and I work our way through Samuel. He wanted to read about the friendship of Jonathan and David so we started here. I find absolute joy in spending this type of time with my children; especially when they ASK you to spend it with them.

I've found joy in stolen kisses with my hubby. *wink*

I've found joy in the Princess being home.

I've found joy in the Talented One's music.

I've found joy in B-boo's ability to make me laugh.

I've found joy in cuddling with the Drama Queen while we read together.

I've found joy in lots of things.

Including the amazing video of "Oh Happy Day" that is posted by Sharon. Thanks!

 

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Family

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