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Mar 11 2010

*Grin*

Sometimes, just making an effort, no matter how hard it seems, is worth it.  Especially after a day like yesterday.

Today, my shakes are bad and it feels as if I'll never recover from this stuff; but, I forced myself to take a shower and really wash my hair good. Then, I beauty pampered myself a bit.

And then, after trimming my hair (I started it a little the other day, but got brave and did even more today), I even blow dried it AND styled it a bit!

And, I put on a bit of makeup.

And splashed some sweet smelling honeysuckle on.

And am out of my pajamas.

Just for the Joy of It. What brings you joy, today?

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Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Health, Just for the Joy of It.

Mar 09 2010

Quirkiness

This morning as B-boo was in search of whipped topping, I had to laugh. You see, each morning, she has a cup of hot chocolate with whipped topping and usually a bagel with cream cheese. She's willing to eat other things for breakfast, but do NOT mess with her whipped topping. Which brings us back to last night really. Hubby had to go to the store and so I asked him to get more whipped topping because I didn't want B-boo to run out. I know she'll flip if she gets up and finds none. She just can't start her day out without it. Or the chocolate.

For the most part, her chocolate is left alone. No one else seems to have the fancy for it that she does. We're talking Ghiradelli hot chocolate. Good stuff. And whipped topping.

So hubby purchases two whipped toppings, only to find out there was already one in the freezer, bring us up to three in the freezer because there was a hidden one, no TWO in the fridge. Except, one was empty and the other almost. Which of course, threw her into a panic, because that meant she might not have whipped topping for her chocolate! But, Dad to rescue, he showed her how he'd stocked up just for her.

And speaking of chocolate, the Smart One doesn't like the good stuff; he only likes the Nestle or Swiss stuff, mixed with milk instead of water. I think he's loopy, but he leaves B-boo's chocolate alone, so it works. What he likes is the gluten free waffles. Don't let him run out, because his morning preference is a waffle sandwich. This means, waffle, egg, sausage patty, cheese, waffle. He will go without the sausage, but he prefers to have the sandwich. He also prefers certain socks for his feet. They have to fit, just right. This is really important to him.

And the Talented One; you have to make sure his bagel is completely covered with cream cheese. If he sees bagel, he'll put more cream cheese on it. He's quirky in other ways, too. For instance, he doesn't like to have his hands dirty; and please don't ask him to touch raw meat. And don't touch his hair. And he likes his own bed. Always has. As an infant, he'd stay up until placed in his crib; then he'd fall asleep. To this day, he rarely does overnights because he likes his bed.

I can't blame him for that one, though. I like my own bed, too. And my pillows have to be placed a certain way or I can't sleep. And I don't like to crawl into a bed with wrinkled sheets. If my bed is unmade for any reason, I have to make it before I can crawl into it. I know, they probably get their quirkiness from me!

The only one that seems to have no real quirkiness is the Drama Queen! She's our flipperty jibbet who just goes along for the ride! She'll sleep anywhere, eat just about anything (as long as she's not allergic to it!), and doesn't always care about what she's wearing.

The only one that is even more so than her is Chicken Noodle Butt. He'll eat anything. Sometimes hubby likes to have fun with him to see how far he'll go. As in chocolate on rice mixed with ketchup and who knows what else. The joke is if no one wants it, give it to Chicken Noodle Butt. His only "quirkiness" is his calendar. He lives by that calendar! Don't mess with it; don't argue with it. 

And then…there's hubby. I'm not sure I can even go there. I'd have to say his "real" quirkiness is his feeling for food. As in, if he doesn't feel like eating it, he won't. If he's not in the mood for it, he'd rather just not eat. What a funny man. I laugh when he stands in front of a full fridge, looking for something, but finding nothing that he is in the "mood" for. You gotta love him.

Our poor kids don't stand a chance at normalness.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Chicken Noodle Butt, Dad, Drama Queen, Family, Humor, Smart One, Talented One, The Vivas Family!

Mar 06 2010

Mothers/Daughters

This weekend, B-boo is out of town. I was supposed to be on this trip with our youth, but because of my recent illness, I'm stuck at home in bed instead.

But I miss her. I've been thinking a lot lately about how close we are. I sometimes wonder if it's a one-sided view, but I don't think so. I'm thinking the phone calls have proved that. B-boo and I have spent a lot of one on one time together. She is fiercely protective of me; my illness has definitely had an impact on her. She's been a wonderful nurse to me and I am so glad she went on this trip without me.

But I miss her. As a competitive gymnasts for four years, she traveled a lot. And so I traveled with her. We had plenty of time to build a relationship. When she quit, I was so sad that we would not take these trips anymore. And then she got sick. And instead of waiting in an airport or bonding in a hotel, we spent many hours in the waiting room of doctor after doctor. Yahtzee on my cell phone in the waiting rooms became routine. Movies and conversations in my bedroom while she recovered from surgeries brought us even closer.

And now, party planning and house cleaning and Wednesday nights with chocolate; all of these keep our relationship going. So yes, I miss her.

And I was telling hubby yesterday as I received a text from her letting us know she was ok; that I can only hope to have the same relationship with the Drama Queen as I have with B-boo. I wonder; because the Drama Queen has such a hold on her relationship with her Daddy. And that is ok, I understand her being Daddy's Girl.

She is such a ball of fire and ready to take off at any given minute. She is so different from B-boo. Tonight, we talked about her continuing to home school while I gave her a french manicure. She wanted me to take her to have one; I couldn't do that, but I could give her one myself. She was thrilled! And we talked about the things we could do and places we can go and the fun we can have.

Yes, she is different. She has different ideas and needs and wants. But I found out tonight, that I am definitely in the running. When it comes to the fun girl stuff and talking and laughing, she wants that with me.

So, while I miss B-boo terribly this weekend; I am using the time to fill some moments with the Drama Queen.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: B-Boo, Drama Queen, Family, The Vivas Family!

Mar 03 2010

Memories

Recently, Hubby has been going capturing old videos and transferring them to DVD's. We've had so much fun watching them; laughing as we remember things long forgotten. It's been fun to show our children what they were like when they were babies; the obvious love we had for them as newborns.

Yesterday, hubby came across some pictures of our dear friends from 1993! I just have to share this one and tell the story behind it!

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This is my sweet friend. She ALWAYS makes me laughs. Someone once asked me to describe her, and my reply was, "She's the type that when she walks into a room, you automatically smile." We've been friends for over 17 years. We met when our husbands were working at an office supply store together. Turns out we were all the same age (give or take a few months) and we went to the same church. So, one weekend, the husbands decided the wives should meet. I was six months pregnant with the Talented One at the time. I'll never forget walking into their superbly clean, white apartment. The men introduced us, then walked into another room to do something with computers and left us standing there alone.

And we've been talking ever since!

The above picture was taken several months later, on an outing we took right after the Talented One was born. But the story to the outfit she was wearing brings back forever memories.

You see, we'd decided to go on a camping trip for Labor Day weekend. We waited and waited for them, and finally drove over to their apartment to meet them and hurry her up. When I walked into her bedroom, she was standing there, IRONING her cute little green outfit with white polka dots. To go camping. In the woods.

In her defense, she'd never been camping before; and I don't believe she's ever gone camping since.

I still laugh today at that outfit!

We had so much fun on that trip! She also took with her WHITE sweats. I'd have to say my fondest memory was sitting on the rocks, peeling potatoes.

And of our strapping young husbands, taking a bath in the freezing creek. And having the Good Looking One, six at the time, join them.

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We've come a long way from "The Princess Bride" every Friday night at our house. We haven't made home made pizza in ages. They have three children now that keep them busy and her husband is gone much of the time, flying people here and there. We've a houseful of kids ourselves now!

But we are still there when it's important. We still make each other laugh. And we still have those memories.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Friendship, Humor

Mar 02 2010

I just love it when God…

Don't you just love it when God shows He cares? I do!

Yesterday I had a doctor's appointment. We took a short jaunt to Whole Foods to grab some stuff for our allergy kids and then went home. I was exhausted, shaking, lightheaded and had a headache by the time we got home. I've been suffering from insomnia since I contracted the Sepsis and last night was bad. I tossed and turned and absolutely could not sleep. By this morning, I was a mess. I spent some time in prayer just kind of pouring out my heart.

Hubby was up early getting kids to school and such. Then, the phone repair guy showed up an hour early, throwing hubby off. The Princess had some problems and it was pure chaos. On top of that, I had another doctor appointment today, so needed to get ready. Hubby was trying to get some protein in me to help me with the shakes while dealing with everything else. Finally, we were able to sit down so he could give me my antibiotics. NOT!

We had three days worth left; and ALL THREE antibiotics were broken in one way or another. We had to call the pharmacist and nursing care to find out what to do; only to find out we had to go across town to pick up the meds to get them into me on time. This meant we had to leave even earlier. As hubby was about to blow and I was about to burst into tears, the doorbell rings.

Beautiful, long stem roses had arrived, fresh cut from the farm.

God is good.

We finally made it to the doctor's appointment (with clean hair, I might add!), and saw the doc. He said I can have my picc line taken out! It comes out first thing tomorrow, yippee! I still have weeks for full recovery, but what an answer to prayer.

On top of that, we've been praying for answers in regards to some very specific happenings in our lives. It's not been easy. Today, God sent us someone to help us in this area. I can't really share details, but I can say that this is one of those things that you just KNOW is an answer to prayer. Wow!

I just love it when God does this. 🙂

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Family, Friendship

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