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Apr 05 2010

Ah…Life as it should be!

Every Easter, we have a celebration at our home with our friends. We just open the front door, and they walk on in, bringing food, fun and laughter with them. Oh…and chairs. It is absolutely, without a doubt, the event that I look forward to each year!  Why you ask? Here, let me show you!

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She was smart…she got a quick nap before the party started!

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Time for a quick breather before the crowd hit!

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Two beautiful girls all dressed up!

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A father sharing a moment with his daughter.

(And friends laughing as they enjoy each other's company in the background!)

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Taking a moment to just sit…and enjoy each other.

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A boy and his egg!

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A girl and her egg!

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A priceless smile!

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Bubbles.

I hope your day was as blessed as mine.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Family, Friendship

Apr 04 2010

Can I Share?

Warning: this may turn into a rather long blog!

I am blessed. Not just with an amazingly awesome family, but with friends and a church that mean so much.

As some of you may know, I've had a rather rough year so far. Two months ago, I had a surgery that turned into a long battle. I became septic and have battled that, along with a wound that didn't want to heal and a strength that refused to come back. I went from the queen of energy to not being able to care for myself at all, let alone my family.

But, God has blessed us. Our friends & family were there with us in the hospital, going shopping for us, taking children where they needed to be, bringing meals into our home and getting our children out for a breather when needed. My children have stepped up; taking care of mom, instead of mom taking care of them. And my husband; words cannot express. All I can say is that our marriage has reached a new level! 🙂

A few weeks ago, Easter discussion began. Should we cancel our annual party this year? After much begging from me, we decided to move forward with it. 🙂 After being cooped up in a house for two months except for doctor's appointments, I needed my party!

Friday, my children really stepped up and gave the house a once over! It was wonderful to see them work together and get things done quickly!

Saturday, a couple of sweethearts came over to help with the cooking; which was considerably less since others had volunteered to bring things I usually make! B-boo also helped me put together the dozens of eggs for hiding and the Easter baskets for the next morning.

Tradition has us hiding baskets each year for the kids to find. We get up early and film and take pictures of the kids finding and then raiding, their Easter baskets. This year, hubby had to be at church by 7 am. And he wasn't coming home until shortly before the party started. And you know what? I think this was perhaps the biggest blessing of all. You see, my children weren't so worried about finding their baskets. They were more concerned with helping dad and mom get the little ones ready and going to church. And the little ones didn't complain at all about going to church before they found their baskets.

It wasn't even mentioned.

Not that tradition isn't important. But I will share what an amazing moment I had, when I realized my kids get it. They understand the real reason we celebrate Easter. They understand that while *tradition* is fun, there are just certain things that mean more. And so, we went to church and worshiped and celebrated. It was my first Sunday back, so B-boo kicked me out quickly before I could be caught up in the crowd. She is more like me every day.

And we came home, and they got to work setting up tables and doing the little things that had to wait until the last moment. And it was only after Dad got home that we quickly found our baskets; baskets that are steeped in tradition. The same baskets that Grandma had made for each of them when they were born; the same basket that my oldest son, for the 1st time in 22 years, was not here to receive.

And shortly after, our house was flooded. Flooded with friends that have been there for us for the past two months; for the past year; for the past several years.

We are blessed, indeed. And when we circled up outside for prayer before the feast, I looked around. I was overcome with emotion and tried so hard not to cry as my husband thanked everyone and then asked for the blessing. Our home was brimming; inside and out, with over 80 friends.

They were smiling, laughing, making memories. And it was amazing.

Someone came up to me at one point and commented, "You're not loved are you?"

Her point? 

Our house was full. Full of His love; a love most definitely worth sharing!


Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Family, Friendship, The Vivas Family!, Ya Gotta Read This One!

Apr 02 2010

Could This Be True!?

There are some things in life that every one must experience for themselves. Some things that you just have to experience; right?

Must have experiences that quickly come to mind are:

Chocolate; everyone should experience chocolate in their life.

Ice cream; another must!

Walking barefoot in the sand.

Skydiving! (I know some of you may disagree, but you obviously haven't tried it then!)

Motherhood. (Ok, I realize that cuts a lot of you out, too, but as a mother, I do have to include it!)

A hug.

A kiss.

A smile.

Hysterical laughter.

Falling in the snow.

Catching a snowflake on your tongue.

A rainbow.

Roasting a marshmallow by a campfire.

A smore.

Singing in the rain.

A full moon.

A falling star.

Freely dancing without a care in the world.

Spinning…and falling.

I know I'll think of a hundred more things after I post this, but I'm sure you get my point.

So imagine my surprise when we were watching a commercial and the "Sound of Music" came on and I started singing….

and my niece had no idea what it was! I explained to her that this was a must for our family. The Drama Queen nodded her head in agreement and handed me the movie immediately!

As I type this, the Princess is contentedly watching and humming along. 

And the world will be set right again for yet another day!

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Drama Queen, Family, Princess, The Vivas Family!

Apr 01 2010

Realizing What We Have

Every Thursday, "Good, True and Beautiful" hosts Just for the Joy of It. I love this and look forward to posting something that brings me joy each week. There are so many little things that I often speak of; family times & giggles, friendship, etc….

But…

This morning, it was brought to my attention in my prayer and Bible study; what brings me joy is the ability to read His word. To pray for my children, my husband, my church, my friends, those in need. And more.

What brings me joy is knowing that I can trust in Him, no matter what. And knowing that I can go to His word and receive His comfort, His wisdom, His love.

There are many who can't.

There are many who won't.

My joy today, is not only knowing that I can, but actually doing it.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Faith, Just for the Joy of It.

Mar 29 2010

Who’s in Charge?

Managed Health Care…need I say more?

It continues to boggle the mind how an insurance company can think that they know what is better for a patient than a doctor!

I found this quote today, in Wikipedia. (Not a fan of Wikipedia, but this hits the nail on the head!)

"Unlike traditional indemnity insurance, an HMO covers only care
rendered by those doctors and other professionals who have agreed to
treat patients in accordance with the HMO's guidelines and restrictions
in exchange for a steady stream of customers
." (Bold italics mine)

And there is the problem. Unsuspecting souls who are stuck with an HMO all of a sudden find themselves stuck in a vicious circle. The doctor that they have to see has already agreed to follow the insurance guidelines and restrictions in regards to their health. So basically, the doctor has already agreed to let the insurance tell them how they can treat; or some kind soul stated, what they will pay for. Either way, the result is the same.

Here's a little story: My husband lost his job in October. We managed to hang on to our private insurance for a couple more months, but by January, we were out of the funds to pay for COBRA. As a family of 8 with minimal income, we qualified for Medicaid. Medicaid wasn't so bad; at least they paid for the medical bills and prescriptions. But then, we were *flipped* to Health Plan of Nevada Medicaid, and all of our problems started.

Let's see; for me, it means that I have had to jump through hoops with flames just to get treatment. It also means that we are very limited in who we can see; and if they refuse to treat you (as in my case with a long standing wound), you have to go through more hoops in order to get the insurance to approve you to go somewhere else. Lucky (or not so lucky) for me, I had an actual case of medical neglect going on and amazing doctor (outside of the plan) who was willing to yell and scream and do whatever he could to get me treatment. If finally worked. The only reason I was able to have this doctor was because Medicaid had already approved my surgery with him and then I was flipped that same week, which enabled me to keep my surgeon outside of the network. It is he who has battled for my care, not the HMO doctors or the insurance.

Then there's my son. He's been seeing a doctor for a year now and is on some medication that is working for him. He was *flipped* in March. Medicaid paid for his medication, but now that HPN has taken over, they have decided that he does not need to be on it. They have also decided not to allow him to see his specialist, but instead he is stuck with the primary who has no history with him. We can't see the specialist who has been treating him unless we have a referral; the insurance dictates whether it is necessary or not and they also dictate what kind of meds they will pay for. This has been going on for two weeks. He is now out of medication that will cost us $200 each month and the only one that seems to care is the doctor that he can't see.

Then there's my daughter. She has endometriosis. Endometriosis can NOT go untreated. We went through several surgeries, specialists, etc, just to get her diagnosed and under control. HPN has no specialists in their plan that treat teenagers. We've gone back and forth between insurance and primary care. Insurance says she can see a regular ob/gyn because of her medical diagnosis, but they don't have a specialist listed that she can see. But, there is a waiting list to see the doc, and first she had to see her primary. Which she did. In the meantime, she needs her meds, but they can't come from the primary doctor, they have to come from the specialist and it is has to be an approved med. So, in essence, she can't have her medication to keep her endometriosis at bay because  of ridiculous insurance plan rules and regulations. We did manage to get some samples for her for a month, but the doc that she can see has a waiting list until the end of May! You would think it would be cheaper and make more sense for the insurance to just let her see her specialist that has been treating her, but then, the insurance would actually have to make sense, and we know that just isn't possible!

What they just don't understand is that they are messing with my children's health! Since when did it become OK for these insurance companies to become the doctor's? And are these doctor's so desperate for the business that they will accept whatever the insurances tells them to do?

I understand why doctor's refuse to participate in HMO's. They want to be able to treat their patients without some big company telling them what to do. I get that. What no one seems to understand though, is that it is the rest of us that are suffering. In my opinion, we need to get rid of managed health care. It certainly is not helping my family. And I'm a fighter. I spend more time on the phone trying to get their needs taken care of. Most people don't have the time or energy and just accept it.

I'm tired of accepting it. It sure would be nice if those who think they are doing what is best for us would actually take the time to listen and really be interested in DOING what is best for us.

Ok, rant over.

Written by Mama Vivas · Categorized: Health

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